The retired neurologist was just 16 years old when he came from Hong Kong to Berkeley in 1961, but immediately he felt at home because his father and several of his aunts and uncles were alumni who had lived at I-House. “I-House never wanted freshmen, but my aunt threw her weight around and got me in,” laughs Kwei, whose aunt Djoh-I Li was among the earliest residents of I-House, the coeducational housing complex for international and American students established in 1930. Only reluctantly did Kwei leave Berkeley in 1965 to attend medical school in Madison, Wisconsin. “Everyone said, ‘You’ll love Madison. It’s just like Berkeley,’” he recalls. “It’s not. There’s no place like Berkeley.”
After completing medical school, Kwei was drawn back to the Bay Area where he met his future wife, Michele, a nurse in the open-heart surgery unit at the former Pacific Presbyterian Hospital (now part of California Pacific Medical Center). “He asked me to go kite flying and I thought he was joking,” says Michele about her first date with Kwei. Sure enough, the dashing young doctor showed up with a kite to fly on San Francisco’s Marina Green.
Their first baby, a boy named Adrian, was born with a congenital heart disease and did not survive corrective surgery as an infant. “It wasn’t easy, it’s never easy,” says Michele about the loss of her young son. “But it brought us closer.” To honor Adrian’s memory and to express their affection for UC Berkeley’s I-House, the Ü’s gave a gift of property in 2006 and established the Adrian Hao Yin Ü Gateway Fellowship. The earnings from the endowed gift pay for room and board during the academic year for one I-House student who comes from a university in Hong Kong, Taiwan, or China. “We wanted to do something in Adrian’s memory,” says Kwei. The Üs went on to have two healthy children and Kwei became the only Cantonese-speaking neurologist in San Francisco’s Chinatown for nearly 30 years.